Sa pagmamahal, may mga tao talaga na nagpapadala sa tukso at tawag ng laman. Napakasakit nito para sa taong niloko at pinagpalit sa ibang tao. Kung ikaw ay nasa ganitong sitwasyon, ano ang gagawin mo?
Basahin ang article na ito para matuto at siguraduhing i-apply ito para mas magkaroon ka ng peace of mind.
1. Don’t hold back your emotions
Kung galit ka, ilabas mo ito. Pero wag kang gagawa ng mga bagay na pagsisisihan mo. Cry if you must. Ilabas mo lang lahat ng nararamdaman mo para alam mo sa sarili mo na hindi mo lang inipon lahat. May mga tao na sumisigaw sa isang mataas na lugar. Express how you feel, as long as you won’t do anything stupid or something you will regret in the end. Don’t make decisions out of anger or any extreme emotion.
2. Talk your partner
Kausapin mo nang malumanay ang partner mo and find out what’s going in. Let him explain to you everything. Huwag mo siyang awayin o kaya ay saktan ng pisikal. Mas makakakuha ka ng sagot kung kakausapin mo siya ng mahinahon. Kung umamin siya sayo, ask him what’s his plan. Don’t make the decision dahil nakadepende sa kanya kung ano ang gusto niyang mangyari sa relasyon ninyo ngayon. Don’t ask why.
3. Accept with defeat
Kahit masakit, accept with all your heart what had happened. Hindi mo na mababalik ang nakaraan, pero it’s best to move forward. Things happen for a reason, and most especially, it’s God’s will. You have to trust Him no matter how bad your situation is. Trust Him that He has better plans for you. This could be for something good.
Most probable that you are where you are supposed to be right now.
4. Forgive
Forgive your partner and see where this situation will lead you. Give yourself a chance to heal as well. Forgiveness will help you as well. Some people ask, ano dapat nauuna, acceptance o forgiveness. To tell you honestly, it’s possible to forgive first before acceptance. Mas matutulungan mo sarili mo na tanggapin lahat kapag nagpatawad ka kaagad.
5. Pray
Pray for your heart, your partner and for guidance from the Lord. Listen to what God is telling you at this moment. This season of heartbreak is so painful, but there will always be room for prayer. Gawin mong sentro ng buhay mo si God dahil siya ang makakatulong sayo sa kahit anong gawin mo sa buhay mo. Trust Him and His plans for your life. Siya ang lubos na nakakaalam ng lahat ng nakakabuti para sa buhay mo.
